Cali Central Coast Frot buddy

I live in Pismo Beach. 39 5'9" 170 white guy, Red head/blue eyes. I am looking for that right frot bud that enjoys lots of body contact, chest to chest, enjoys passionate play, and hard frot to completion. Hard to find a frot lover in my area so willing to find that right guy in surrounding cities.


New to Frot; Looking for So Cal, Long-term Frot Bro

My name is Raegan. I recently discovered Frottage and this Frot community of brothers. I am 5' 8"; 170 lbs; told I am handsome; 50's (invariably, people say I look much younger "whatever that means"); toned, strong body; enjoy beaching; working out; nature; art/music/literature; love animals; am very passionate/verbally erotic. Fairly recently divorced after 12-year marriage. Wanting a mature, healthy, earthy, passionate, sexually electric bond with another masculine, regular-kind-of guy. C2C; deep kissing; cuddling; slow/fast steady grinding until our bodies explode in hot, male ecstasy.

San Diego


Long term frot buddy near Norco

Married 38 year old white guy 6' 210 hwp. Looking for another married long term frot buddy my age or younger near Norco. Not looking for love just male bonding. I'm very active and looking for someone that can keep up with me. No offense to anyone older. I'd like to find a married outdoors kinda guy like myself. I do a lot of outdoor activities like camping, hunting, fishing, guns, horses, hiking and jeeps. Someone in good shape. I go to the gym almost every day for at least an hour. Someone to help kill time on our long guy trips together and give each other a helping hand.



San Diego LTR and Wrestling

San Diego -- love lots of body contact, passionate make out sessions, looking for LTR. 5'9 180 52 white STD free. love wrestling with any age and race.


looking for a friend in the SFV

Hey I'm a very discreet guy and easy going. I'm looking for a friend similar to me who is masculine and enjoys drinking beers and hanging out. I'm 25, average height and build and prefer older and someone who can host.


Northern California (Bay Area / Sacramento) former Marine looking for Frot buddy

I'm writing in hopes of finding a regular buddy for some real man to man bonding. I'm white, 40yo, 5'11, 195lbs, muscular, all man. I am NOT interested in any kind of anal "sex" whatsoever. I was married for 11 years to a great gal, no kids. I work in the construction industry in Northern California (Bay Area / Sacramento). I've always found myself attracted to the idea of finding a kind of intimacy with another male. I was a Marine for 6 years and found that the kind of emotional intimate bond that Marines develop with each other is unlike anything I've ever found with a female. Over the years I found my desire to hug, kiss, and wrestle my closest buddies but never have found an outlet for these feelings. Finding your website was a lucky thing for me. Finally--I might be able to connect with another like minded buddy out there.

I am ALL MAN and am only interested in finding a buddy who respects and strives to ultimate masculinity. I enjoy the flow of testosterone that male to male body contact brings me.

I want to connect with one other like-minded Man.


SF Frot Buddy

I'm a healthy, fit 60 year old man, 5'10, 155. Live in San Francisco. I have a positive outlook on life. Looking for another fit man to enjoy some naked frot, kissing, intimacy. Pls respond with a description of yourself.

Thank you.

Bill Sf

Tahoe Area Frot

I have never held another cock before and I'm ready. I'm mid-30s, fit, good looking, with a nice dick. Live in Tahoe and am looking to meet someone to discretely rub cocks with. Not into kissing. Wrestling, rubbing, fighting cocks with another sounds amazing. Looking for a fit body clean safe partner with similar interests.


Frot buddy in Palo Alto

Anybody else near or in Palo Alto looking for a frot buddy?

31-year-old smart, good-looking athletic professional outgoing Asian dude here, 5'9 155lbs.


Looking for frot buddy, San Diego

My name is Juan, I'm currently living in San Diego and I'm looking for a frot buddy who is open to bonding, I'm 35yo, white latino, 5.9f, 155 lbs.

Hopefully this posting will lead to a good and quality friend.

Thanks for your messages.


Los Angeles Frot Buddy

Looking for a regular frot buddy with the possibility of more in Los Angeles. Me: black, 45, athletic, sports guy, muscled, thick build, goatee, shaved head. Interested in body-to-body contact to satisfaction. Cool, easy going, discreet. Prefer thick build to chubby guy but most of all looking for a cool, well-adjusted guy.


Man2Man about me. Looking for someone to meet I've never done this before. Josh in Santa Barbara.

Hi my name is Josh,

I am straight-identified and I still date girls but I've seen videos of men ramming their boners up against each other and rubbing their hard cocks together and it makes me so hard. And I wanna try it. I've never done anything like this but I'm really looking for a Frot Buddy or LTR. I'm 20 years old and live in Santa Barbara.


Santa Clara County straight-identified male for frot friend

47 year old white straight-identified male 5'10" 180 lbs would like to experience a frot with 19-50 yo handsome man and become frot friend.


Pasadena frot friend

Hello my name is Emmanuel, I'm 21 years old Latin, from Pasadena. I'm slim fit 5ft. 8in. about 145. Looking for a friend I can connect and always frot. The thought and doing it turns me on and I need someone who gets just as turned on and can always connect as one. If interested you may email me:


Los Angeles south central area

19, 6'4" 7 inch cock, straight-identified and interested in rubbing cocks till loads are blown and maybe after. Big guy 300 lb not built sloppy. Play collegiate sports. Black.


Looking for a buddy in San Diego

I am currently living in san diego looking for a buddy who enjoys man to man frottage. Masculine here 5'9 165 lbs white x military who enjoys wrestling, hiking, anything outdoors. I am comfortable with being nude and am open to that as well. If we connect and more happens that is cool too but I prefer a man between the age of early 20's-30's non smoker too. send me an email and lets see where it leads.


Masc Lean 51 -- Sacramento -- Seeking Frot Buddy

Would like to connect w/lean and healthy guy 30+ to explore frot and m2m intimacy safely and discreetly. Looking for a guy who's friendly and well grounded, no games or manipulation.

Into positive, trusting and sensual m2m exploration with a guy. Send me a message if you have similar interests.


Seeking a Friend in Los Angeles

This site is great! I'm happy to see a website that's just for guys like us.

I am 42, a white guy living in Los Angeles, 5'9 190 hairy, a normal, discreet guy. Looking for a guy to share some great times with.

I am looking for a frot buddy/partner in the So Cal Area.

I'm normally attracted to a younger, masculine type of guy.

I have my own place so I can have you over to my place or I can travel too if it's not too far from LA.


Frot Los Angeles

Seeking a compatible Long term frot partner in the Southern California area

I'm an avid frot enthusiast who'd love to share my interests with a guy who's just as much into this ultimate pleasure.

I'm a young 60, 5'7", 158 lbs., good shape, 7" cut. Love the idea of stripping, facing-off, manhood-to-manhood, taking in the sight, and feeling the overwhelming instinct to lunge at each-other, with our cocks the center of attention.

I love rubbing cocks, whether it's in the act of a full body embrace, or going at it in a hot erotic oil wrestling match.

I live in the San Gabriel Valley area, work in O.C. Would love to meet a similarly minded, long term frot buddy.


Long Beach Frot LTR

I'm Tony.

I'm looking for a frot ltr. I tend to be attracted to a man who's athletic, muscular, and generally African-American or Latino Middle Eastern. I have a great sense of humor & love to laugh. I hate drama and arguing. Looking for someone without a lot of baggage, . . . I'm a young 51, 6'1" 235 thick build. Looking ultimately for long term love. I live in Long Beach (So. Cal) self-employed and emotionally available.

Hit me back if interested in getting to know me, perhaps over drinks.

Be blessed.


San Diego, 29, former military, looking for Frot Buddy

29 year old in San Diego out of the military after 8 years moved back after graduating college. Looking for a frot buddy to connect to. Not into anal at all and prefer frot, but it's hard to find a guy into the same the traditional way. Hopefully this posting will lead to a good quality man! Into masculinity and connecting.

Thanks for your help Man2Man Alliance! Good to find a place out there for us!


Mid-Twenties Male, San Diego

Single Male mid-twenties just moved to San Diego. 5'11, 165lbs brown hair blue eyes with fit athletic build and body hair. Have had these experiences before with friends that I trusted and I still identify as heterosexual to anyone who asks. I'm not interested in anal, just a friend who is open to bonding as men athletically and, if we develop a friendship, passionately too. Interested in meeting someone my age up (20 to mid-30's) who is interested in hiking, exploring beaches, running trails, swimming, any kind of pick-up game sport. Also love film. Shoot me an email and we'll see how it goes. If this is new to you no pressure, I'm just looking for friendship and won't push the issue of frotting, wrestling nude, anything like that. If we connect and are comfortable with each other I'm very at ease with being naked together, wrestling, swimming, hiking free-balling, whatever. All of it feels natural to me and isn't something I think is a big deal. Looking forward to meeting you.


SHERMAN OAKS Man Seeks LTR or Regular Frot Buddy

Looking for a buddy into frottage. Not into anal. Very much into frot with a similar minded guy for regular frot or LTR.

I am 6'2", 180 lbd. Fit in shape, brown, thinning hair. Hairy body.


SF Bay area Younger looking for older Frot bud and mature friendship

New to the Bay Area and would like to find an older, mature man for frot exploration. Mentoring is definitely an option as well. No preference on sexual identity -- just have an interest in frot and man2man alliance as this web community describes.

I am 29 5'10 160 and confident with my looks.

bi name

San Lorenzo frot

I have grey hair (I like to say that my hair is silver) and green eyes. I take care of my mother who has dementia. I weigh about 175 and i am 6' tall. I like to fish and camp. I am a blackbelt in kenpo. I'm 62 years old.

This sounds very interesting to me. I used to do this when young but not since then. I would like to meet someone close by.


Discreet and Safe Frot in San Jose

Discreet and masculine 30 yo white guy in San Jose. I've been looking for something like this for years now, and I'm excited at the chance to finally meet someone who shares frot in common.

I'm looking for a guy my age, but preferably younger, in good shape who wants something lasting and not just a one-time thing.

I have limited frot experience, so seeking someone in a similar situation, or someone who is willing to be patient in teaching me.

Thanks for reading and hope to hear from you!

Ry Guy

hayward cock to cock

Older man in the hayward area, 62, would like to meet same. I like sensual cock to cock and boby rubbing. I'm 5'9" 150 lb, good body. No oral or anal please.


LOS ANGELES -- Looking for a LTR or Frot Buddy

In Los Angeles area, in-shape, 48, 5'7", 160#, totally d/d free, not into anal, very much into frot seeks a similar guy for on-going mutual pleasure that can develop into a LTR.


Los Angeles Area Frot Buddy

hi. i'm 39, white, 5'9, 190, hairy, clean, ddf, masculine.
I live in the los angeles area.

i would like to find a younger masculine guy, 18 to 30, in the LA area that is also into frot, body contact, make out, j/o.
No Anal. you can email me if you like.


LTR in Santa Barbara

What a blessing to find this club. For half a century I have felt that I did not fit into the gay world because I was not into anal and promiscuity. Fidelity and Frottage is the answer for me and I hope to find just one other person to share this life long dream. My name is John Thomas and I am 54 years old. 5 11. 2OO lbs in great shape. What could be better than wrestling and frottage with the man of your dreams. Lets get together and meet and we can talk about everything else.

John Thomas

Seeking Long Term Relationship or Frot Buddy Los Angeles

I am 22, 6'7" and fluctuate between 290 and 310 lbs. Open to all ages (18 & up) and races, I'm mixed Korean and black. I live in South Central Los Angeles. I'm a UEI College graduate in the field of Computer Systems Technician. I have my own place and I don't drive but I do get around on public transportation. I would eventually like to be involved in a loving monogamous long term relationship. I am a non-smoker and don't drink or do drugs and would like the same of you (although it's perfectly ok if you drink socially but I seriously hate cigarettes).

Hugs and Warm Regards,



27 year old male in DALY CITY. I am hoping to find a mentor for long term exploration of male sexuality. I stumbled upon this site and I am optimistic that I may finally find the right man to fulfill my needs. I am inexperienced sexually, but eager to change that with the right man. A man with experience in frot would be great, but another newcomer would be fine. We can learn together! Physically, I am 5'9, 175 lbs. Blue eyes, black hair, moderately hairy, natural and uncircumcised. I am a lover of sports (Go Giants!), former rugby/soccer player. Also love video games, cooking, books and I am semi-obsessed with stand up comedy. I am attracted more to personality than physicality, and the right guy is more than just a body. I should hope that I enjoy your company and conversation as much as I enjoy your cock. But, I really do hope to get know that cock. I cannot host in my current living situation, but happy to travel within reason around the Bay Area. Drop me a line if you think we are a fit. I hope to be spending time with the right man some time soon, but I'm not in a rush. Ideally we could start with a few emails, so I'm hoping to hear from you and to get the ball rolling.


Imperial Valley, LA, SD frot buddy

I am 30y/o white, 5.11 180 lbs and masculine. I love grinding with another masculine man. I live in the Imperial Valley in Southern California...I am willing to travel to San Diego or LA for a frot buddy that is masculine and around my age. I would like to have a long term relationship or meet up regularly for frot, dick grinding, JO and making out. We can exchange pics and take it from there if you think we would be a good match. Pls be near my age and height weight proportionate.

Chelito MGA

Looking in the LA/OC area:

25 year old asian guy here that just found this site and so glad to have. I've been looking for a guy I can settle with, that wants to be in a relationship in this kind of bond. I'm 5'7, 130, look wise I'll let you be the judge if we get to talk. I prefer someone around my age and up to 35, and in decent shape. Don't do these very well so I'm sorry if I'm a bit short on words here. Anyway, I hope to hear from you!



Thanks for this site, it's so good to know there are other guys (be they gay, straight, bi, whatever the labels) that know and feel as though the bond between two guys is not in the form of anal, but an admiration of bodies, personality, and minds that is frot.


SF Bay Area /Berkeley Man

Hello Bill,

I am overwhelmed with respect and praise for you, having confirmed through your intelligence, and skill in writing, the paradigm of male to male mutual phallic celebration, beyond any definition of domination, mimicking of heterosexual coupling, beyond the use of an organ for the excretion of bodily waste as a sacred organ of sexual pleasure, and your embrace of what is most glorious about manhood, the potential for the pleasure enjoyed phallically by those who honor the best of masculine, manly eros.

Although a native Californian, I have lived and worked in Europe for a good number of years, ten of which in Russia. I had the great joy of having lovers with whom I learned and then practiced a broad range of non-anal/non-penetrative sex with men, men whom I loved and who loved me, but with none of the associations of the dominant gay culture.

I seek a relationship of equality with another man, for the pursuit of phallic pleasure, mutually delivered, and savoured.

I do not take drugs, I abhor unsafe sex, I could never reduce a man to simply his definition of a sexual position (top/bottom), and having lived and worked on 5 continents, I am definitely a man open to all races, cultures, and nationalities.. I speak 5 languages other than English.

I am proud of my manhood, I thrive when celebrating my manhood with another, I take him as a brother, as an equal.

Hence, I wish to join the Frot Club. Being a minority within the prevailing 'gay culture', who does not seek anal penetration, who considers offensive to being a man, the top/bottom dichotomy, I therefore hope to meet a man like I am, in this Club.


Palm Springs Frot

Looking for a Frot Buddy to get together with on a regular basis in Palm Springs area. Lots of slow and erotic c2c, bulge to bulge action whenever/wherever. I especially like grinding together in tight gear, whether it's jeans, tightie whities, bike shorts or speedos, but totally enjoy naked or with just white crew socks on as well.


North Orange County Frot Friend Wanted

Hi. My name is Tommy. I am 64 yrs old 5 ft 7in 155# clean shaven athletic white male. I would love to find a friend for close male to male body contact in the Fullerton or surrounding area. I live with family and I cannot host at my house. I like most outdoor sports such as snow boarding and mountain biking and long walks on the beach with a special guy. Open to all ages and body types. I also have a major interest in underwear and speedos. Lets meet for a coke or coffee and see what hapens?


47 year old Looking for a Friend First & Potential LTR in or around Kelseyville 95451

Hello gentlemen, I'm 47 and 5' 8", moustache & goatee. I don't drink or do drugs but I do smoke cigarettes now and then but would quit completely for the right man.

I'm looking for a good friend first and see where it goes from there. The ideal situation would be that the chemistry between us works towards a LTR situation. I would love a partner. I am very new to being with a man as I was married to a woman in the past.

I am looking for someone around my age, between 44 to 60 who is NOT in to anal at all. Also, I don't want someone who was in to it at one time. I have never done anal and not interested in it at all and do not want someone with anal experience. I really want someone who loves to hug, cuddle, kiss, j/o and oral. I have a lot of love to give to the right person and I am tired of being alone.

Thanks for reading my posting. I look forward to hearing from you.


Orange County (Irvine) 4 Long Term Frot Friend

Black guy, living in Irvine looking for a great guy to share intimate frot times and see what develops. Great easy going personality, open to exploring new things; enjoy body contact, lots of frottage (oiled or dry humping/grinding), jo, nipple play, and deep kissing. Me: 44 years old, 6'3" tall, 230lbs thick build, hiv neg ddf, non-smoker and appreciate the same. Open to age and race, tend to be attracted to guys hwp. If we're a match, distance doesn't bother me, have car will drive. Look forward to hearing from you!


Seeking jo buddy/ frot friend in Lake Forest

I'm looking for jo buddy to also do some cock rubbing known as frot or frottage.

About me - I'm 48, single, straight acting, 150 pounds, thin, no chest hair, and live in Lake Forest. I've only had one long time jo / frot buddy, we've been doing this since we were kids, but he now lives far away so I'm looking for a local replacement for regular get togethers. Might you be his replacement?

About you - Please be around my size, not hairy, with a cut cock. Any age or race, but please be clean, friendly, and interested in an ongoing jo / frot buddy relationship.

About us - I'd like to meet for coffee and conversation a couple ot times to get to know one another before our first session. We need to trust one another before we strip down. I'd like this to be an ongoing thing so I'm not interested in one timers. If you have not had a jo buddy / frot partner before I'd be happy to tell you how we began our sessions over a cup of coffee or glass of beer.

If you live near Lake Forest, and are interested in an ongoing jo / frottage relationship please drop a line. Hope to hear from you!



Looking for a LTR Frot Bud in San Diego

49 5 8 br/br 176. I am HIV Negative. No STDs. Looking for a adv. to fit body type guy. like holding you in my arms all the sleeping hours, cuddling, and love deep kissing, and enjoy each other man on man for intense sensation frot. Not into drugs, smoking or drinking. Looking for same. Seeking a solid friendship/relationship. LT Frot bud. Age, race, income is not important. Let me know if you're interested.


Hancock Park/ Los angeles: Young dude looking for a frot bud

I'm 20 years old born and raised in Los Angeles. I have an avergae build and average cock. 5' 9" 160 lbs, 6". Looking for someone who is young and average to fit body type. Also they would need their own place. Also i've never actually had a frot experience but I constantly think about it. Im in a frat and definitely had some bromance haha, like dancing with another dude in just boxers but, looking for something more.


Elk Grove erotic wrestling and LTR

SWM (27) From Elk Grove interested in erotic wrestling, but don't know alot about it. 5'11" 180-190, bit of gut but otherwise in decent shape. I love long haired clean shaven, but everything else non discriminatory. As with every aspect of my life, i'm in it for the long haul... Looking forward to meeting you, if your out there.


Looking for a frot buddy in San Diego

Latino, 5'9", 170, 44, athletic build, attractive, nice guy, into frot in Speedos/bikini briefs kissing nipple play bulge grinding crotch riding then JO safe play Hiv- looking for a frot buddy.


SF Cockfight Bud

Hello this is Hector in San Francisco. I am looking for a cockfight buddy in the area. Love it when two men strip down and go at it man2man. Also enjoy wrestling with a lot of cockfighting involved. Email me and let's set up a match!


So. CAL / LA Looking for a J/O guy

Hey, I'm 41, look 31, 6'2", 200, muscular/athletic build, clean-cut looking, also into outdoor activities and looking for a friend to J/O and frot with.

Hope to hear from you . . .


Young guy for frot and/or relationship in ORANGE COUNTY (costa mesa)

6'6" (yes, very tall) 210 lb, Pretty Good Shape. Looking for young guy around my age. Less than 23. Love full body, oil, wrestle, and frot.

Reply with your e-mail to exchange pics and/or talk.


palm springs frot man

hi my name is adam i would like to meet a frot man in the palm springs area


Southern Orange County - Interested in a Close Friendship

Interested in a male to male heroic relationship. I'm caucasion, 6'2" tall, 190 lbs, brown hair and eyes, 40. I live near Irvine. I'm a professional and am conservative. Have master's degree from Berkeley.

Consider myself above average in looks and average in masculinity.

Sincere, kind, respectable. Looking for something real and intimate - not self-absorbed one time getting-off sessions.

Please e-mail me



Looking for a buddy to kick back with & enjoy each other man-to-man for mutual jo and frot play. Regular bud & maybe even dating is possible.

Kissing, underwear/jocks, nipple play & other stuff, just not into anal. I believe 2 men can have great sex without penetration. Rubbing our cocks our balls together is a great way to play.

I'm in W Hollywood, early 50s, good shape 5'6" 155#, bald/buzzed, cut, single & neg.


So. Calif., 805 area code, (SB)

In-Shape Guy, who works out on a regular basis, would like to find a Frot friend-and-buddy, most likely in the 40 to 60 age range, but not set in "stone". I enjoy hot c2c pleasures. If interested, e-mail me to see if we have things in common.


Chino Hills looking for a frot friend!

I'm in Chino Hills. looking for a friend to enjoy frottage with. I'm discreet, can not host but hope to find a friend who can. I'm 39, 5-7. 160 lbs. in shape latin/white guy. Everyone be safe and take care!


looking for frot buddy in long beach/los angeles area

Hi, I have had a great frot experience before. Currently looking for long term frot friend in long beach, california but los angeles is alright also. I am clean cut, look 40 years old at 50, athletic, white, caucasian, 210 lbs., 6'. Interested? Please give me an email.





San Francisco Bay buddy

I'm a tall, fit, masculine, mature man interested in finding a similar buddy for intelligent conversation, good humor, and discreet safe/sane adventures. Sailors to the front of the line. Any questions?

Almost Normal

Laguna Hills buddy

Seriously interested in finding a buddy. I am an older guy, living in Laguna Hills. Love wrestling, though it seems to me I am best at 'rasslin, great body 2 body and frottage. 6'3", 210# average build, more a swimmers build. As a kid I used to wrestle around in the waves with friends. Little did I know then.


Los Angeles wrestling and frottage

Former HS Football/Wrestler into frottage, underwear, jockstraps and nudity. What this means to me is two men sharing the timeless honored sport of control, power, agility, intimacy, sweat,and play in one of the hottest ways possible. It's permission to invade each other's domains, crashing two worlds together in sudden hot combat, or slow, torturous ownership and domination. It's pleasure and (mild) pain. It's control and being controlled. It's quick and it's slow, with fantasies explored. It's the perfect way to really understand a hot guy you want to get closer to, to learn his energy (and yours). To see what he's made of. To see what you're made of. To push yourself and him to your limits ... together. To look eye to eye in ferocity and calmness. To put it all on the line, to the last moment. To win it all, and lose it all. It's competitive, and yet cooperative. It's one of the best workouts you can get. It's minds, bodies, hearts, souls fighting for dominance on every level. And then, when it is over, to lie in each other's arms at the end and celebrate victory, that's when you know he's your friend. That's only the start. So, you out there, reading with juices flowing inside, getting hard, salivating, wanting this experience for your own, tell me then, what does frottage mean to you?


Venice Warrior seeks heroic friend

WARRIORS OF THE WORLD, greetings! I'm Chrisangel, a professional artist / dancer and nature lover... and absolute follower of grecian culture! I'm from Venice, California...grew up with Greeks, and I love their language, their art, and their traditions. I dream of discovering a modern day adventurer, hero, lover, and friend; that amazing man who lives in my heart. I'm 5' 10", 150#, lean, toned, strong, and totally dedicated. And I would follow my Achilles or my Alexander to the very confines of this wonderful world of ours!

Christian Felix


Chas here, checking things out. Older Black guy, kinda conservative, masculine, hung, stocky/muscular build, 5'11", 230, some say handsome. Just wondering who is in Ventura area.

Please include a description of yourself, your age, H/W, and something to spark my interest if you contact me. Otherwise, I will NOT respond.


SACRAMENTO to be with a guy

I don't think I'm gay but would love to find a friend to get naked with and rub cock's and kiss and I'm so glad there are so many men that don't want anal as I have never wanted to do that. I have never been with a man but it turn's me on to think about it just kissing and rubbing our cocks together. Well hope to hear from someone in the Sacramento area.


frot friends

looking to meet frot friend in S.F. Bay Area,
Mature man in S.F., 5'10" - 155lbs, Smooth,
worked out body. Have pic to swap. use my



San Jose and surrounding areas

I am looking for a masculine guy who is passionate about frottage. I am into cock rubbing while kissing. I also get into erotic wrestling and especially while in undergear such as tight jeans, boxer briefs, speedos, jock straps, singlets..............

It is great having a site for men who are not into anal. I really thought I was the only person out there. Now I feel good and feel really good about this site.

I am a masculine guy, standing 6'0 and weighing in at 170 lbs.


Cockfights/Grinding Wars

44y, 5'10,185...musc..44c32w16a...7" cut thick....good looking straight guy looking for clean, discrete bud for cockfighting/frott/light nude wrestling. Also in to watching women wrestle.

OC Cockfighter

San Leandro/East Bay Frot Guy Here

I'm a San Leandro guy looking for some play. In describing myself, I would say that I'm 5'10", in good shape as I've exercised most of my life--flat stomach, good upper body (frequently complimented on my chest), small butt, good legs. I'm 5'10" and weigh 160 lbs. 55 years old. 100% healthy. I'm Irish by descent and have a fair complexion and have light body hair, though I would not classify myself as hairy. I have red pubic hair an average 6 inch dick (cut - thanks to mom) and two fine balls that are very sensitive to gentle touch. I have a nice face, salt/pepper hair that I keep in a short buzz (not bald). I'm into oral, lots of touching and body contact, kissing, porn. Frot is my way of choice and I love it. A regular bud who understands this would be soooo cooool. Pics shared on request.


LA Looking for committed relationship/Frottage partner

I'm blond/blue/5'10/155lbs, 34, looking for around my age or younger and smooth all over like myself, except under arms and above the cock, of course.

Not into drugs, smoking or drinking. Looking for same. Life is more valuable than sexual penetration, because without life, there is no sex of any kind... Rock on Frottage guys !


Looking for Frot, cock2cock rub in the Inland Empire

Hey Jay here

36yrs old, 5'11 caramel skin, smooth, goatee, 7inch, medium build and disease free. Looking for a guy in the area to bond in sensuous cock to cock action. There's nothing better than 2 men expriencing male to male penetration-free sensuality. If you're that type of guy, drop me a line.


MWM looking for special friend near San Pedro, CA 90731

MWM, 46 yrs, athletic build, 6'2", 195 lbs, clean cut, short brown hair. I am an easy going nice man looking for one special guy to share friendship and frot. Age and race are not important- discretion is. I am STD/drug free, you be too please.

You can email me directly at:


Palm Springs LTR

Erik 43, 5' 10 170# athletic and looking for a ltr with a masculine man who enjoys being face to face when making love. Love to kiss and rub together and be truly intimate in that way. Age race income education all unimportant. Do prefer fit but you never know how the perfect gift may be wrapped. Photos available. Please be masculine and non "affected" in voice or body language. Would love to hear from you.


SAN MATEO Frot bud

In San Mateo, CA, just south of SF and north of SJ. Would love to find an attractive man into frot! Nothing like getting naked, hot kissing, and rubbing without so much worry of AIDS and the uncomfortable anal penetration. Anyone interested?


straight guy looking for discreet frot buddy in fresno

i am 21 years old, 6', 175lbs, looking for discreet Frot buddy in Fresno CA who is hopefully also straight. let me know


West L.A. Partner Sought

I am 6'4" goodlooking, honey-hued GBM, 52, 295, ex-linebacker's build, S&P hair, HIV-, upbeat, enjoy working out, huntin' huskies, nurturing friendships, discussing philosophy & history, discovering why you are who you are. Fantasy session: We cuddle, I pin you, grind you briefly but relentlessly to an explosive climax, we rest, and repeat, you on top this time -- or not. Can't host, but will drive.


Frot bud in Cupertino

Looking for a solid friendship and frot. Must be my same age = 20.



Senior looking for another senior (60+) frot buddy. I'm 73, 6'2" and 245 lbs. and live in Walnut Creek. Would be willing to share a mutual massage too if that would help the bonding.


Los Angeles and Orange County wrestle and frot bud

Hey, I just found this site and I think it's awesome. I'm 25 5'11 225lbs guy who's looking for someone to wrestle and frot with. Looking for someone of similar age and stats. I would like it to be an ongoing thing. I may be able to host somedays but I'm willing to travel. I'm really discreet here as well.


Frot buddy in LA /Marina-Playa

Hey guys,

I want to get in shape with a gdlk out of shape buddy and as we get more toned and ripped we can wrestle and frot together. 25-45 only. GWM 35 5'8 7uc want to get ripped and rough with you. Frot only not looking to hook up LT-Frot buddy only. This is not to hook up. Serious, Discret man love only, I don't care if your married.

hit me up.


SF looking for Frot buddy

I am 36 yr old, 5'7'' 145 pd. 35' chest: 30'waist br/br, hairy chest, athletic, cute..but not handsome GWM into frot, lots of kissing, cock to cock, lots of rubbing, full body contact...the sweatier the better, oily wrestling. I live in San Francisco. What turns me on the most is after a evening of intense frotting to have someone roll over on me early in the morning after a healthy sleep and start rubbing cock until we hopefully cum together. A man who moans during sex really turns me on. Those who don't really turn me off. I work full time and go to college part time(second degree). I don't have the time for a relationship but am interested in establishing a casual frottage buddy relationship. The partner I seek I would like similiar to my build. I am not feminine and don't like my partners that way either. If you are interested hit me up and let's trade pics.

Frot Dude

Looking for a good guy in Long Beach

22 y/o looking for a ltr potential that is into frot, be it in underwear or cock2cock (love it in underwear, find it very hot). Preferably someone around 20s, but not limited to. Laid back person here, with goals for the future and a good head on his shoulders. Hope to hear from you. Email me back at


Take care!

Looking for Frot Buddy in San Diego

I'm 35, hairy, beard, shaved head, masculine lean blk guy. I'm a handsome man with an athletic body, 6ft 178. I'm looking for a frottage buddy, someone around the ages of 30-55. I love to wrestle, roughhouse, jo, and frottage. I can't get enough of kissing and grinding. Kissing is a must. You must be masculine, and hairy.

Describe yourself, and what you get into. Sending a pic would be great. Yours gets mine.


Looking for a Frot Bud in Los Angeles

I just tonight discovered this site. I am and have alway been into Frot, Bone to Bone, Face to face, Male to Male bonding. I, too, am looking for a bud.

38, 5'9", 140, brown hair and eyes, hairy chest, Live in Los Feliz/Hollywood Hills area.


Looks Like a Movie Star and Likes to Frot (Hollywood, CA)

Well, Woody Allen IS a movie star, isn't he?

Looking for a friend with ongoing potential for safe and playful making out, frottage, edging (it's the journey, not the destination), cuddling, and mutual JO. In general, I'm a pretty gentle guy...but my rambunctious inner animal seems to let loose in the bedroom! Let's start with coffee and see if there's a connection. Open to monogamous play buddy only or, even better, romantic overtures.

Me: 5'5", 125 lbs, small endowment, HIV neg, frisky and brainy. I teach English part-time and can conjugate with aplomb. Also have a budding acting career (yes, you can still bud at 50!) and consider myself a character actor in search of a leading man. And just because I've been vegan for over 30 years don't think that means I don't like my men beefy! Actually no limitations on type, though fit and health conscious is always good.

Interests include my Mibo scooter (like a kid's kick scooter but with larger air tires and brakes and the most fun I've ever had exercising), spiritual growth, old time radio, board games, partner dancing, long distance U.S. train travel, leisurely hikes, good conversation.

You: Nice, decent person, HIV neg/STD-free, nonsmoker, lives alone and can host at least some of the time, good kisser, Hollywood vicinity. And must love to frot a lot! Would appreciate a pic for trade.

Should mention that I quit driving years ago (by choice). I'm fond of saying that since I stopped driving, the world has become a safer place for everyone.

Best wishes to all!


21 in Simi valley

Hi, i'm a 21 y/o guy new to any experience with a guy. always been with girls but have always wanted to have a buddy, around 20's-35, that i can really get to know and feel comfortable with. i'm filipino, get along with everyone, open minded and really career focused, and loves to take care of my body. looking for someone that can hang but keep a low profile. descreet. i love girls but i fantasize about dick2dick alot. so if you share my feelings hit me up.


EAST BAY Older Bear seeking frot buddy in SF East Bay (Berkeley, Oakland, San Francisco)

i would like to meet a frot buddy in the Oakland/Berkeley area, or in San Fancisco area;

i am older (60); hairy and large bellied: 5ft 9in tall, 220 lbs; silver beard/chest hair;

i am passionate about kissing, grinding and frot with another guy;

prefer younger guy than me, but thats not etched in stone;

LTR possible if we find we are a match.

yours truly,

george d. (preferring frottage since 1967)


SAN DIEGO frot buddy

Looking for frot buddy in central San Diego. Am discrete and can host.


Bi-curious and looking for a frot buddy to play with and show me the ropes in Los Angeles (near Park La Brea)!

Hey guys, I'm bi-curious and low key with a great smile and a solid head on my shoulders. I'm looking for a frot buddy to play with for the first time and see where it goes from there. I'm clean, masculine, athletic, discreet and safe. Definitely not looking for anything too serious since I'm just starting out. But who knows what might happen if we both hit it off. Would love to find a guy who's genuinely willing to take it slow and show me the ropes for my first m2m experiences --- body contact, j/o, kissing. If that's not you, please don't bother responding. Totally turned on by muscular guys in jockstraps and love wearing them to j/o. Ideally you're also a fun, sane, masculine, athletic guy. Not trying to be picky...just throwing out my preferences in case you're interested. HIV-, Disease/Drug free, clean, discreet --- you must be too. I love in Los Angeles near Park La Brea. Look forward to hearing from you!


SF Erotic Wresting Bud

Married, new to frot. 65, 6-3, 230#. Seeking discrete erotic wrestling partner.




My name is Reggie. I am looking for a frot buddy age between 20 and 35 years-old. I am a 29 year-old discreet Latino guy, average build, black hair, brown eyes, 5' 9" 170 lbs. I live in Ventura County (Southern California) but I work in LA County. So anyone out there in the Ventura County or LA County area hit me up.


PALM SPRINGS passionate about frot


I'm a 67 yo mascuine fit, clean and healthy guy in the Palm Springs area. I'm 67 yo, weigh 165 with a 32" waist.

I'd love to meet a guy who is as passionate about frottage as I am.


SOUTHERN CA athletic frot bud

looking for athletic man who is into frot. im in the southern california area. latin masculine man here who is very sportsminded. i box to keep inshape. tend to also like an easy going type of guy such as myself, with a sense of humor and intelligent.


PALM SPRINGS: Looking for frot buddy in Palm Springs area

59 year old looking for frot buddy. No anal or oral. Lots of kissing, hugging, body rubbing, and massage.


SOUTH SACRAMENTO Looking For A Regular Frottage Bud

I am Looking For A Regular Frottage Bud.

I enjoy a lot of kissing, rubbing cocks, and rubbing sweaty naked bodies together.

I am a 50 year old smooth white male, 6 ' tall, 210 lbs. Grey/white hair. beard, Blue eyes, average cock.


SAN DIEGO Looking for Frot Buddy in San Diego

41 year old Black Male, 5'10', 220lbs, stocky build & smooth skin. Into body contact, kissing, cuddling and frottage/grinding. I am HIV Negative. Seeking a friend for safe frot fun. I can host at my place in North Park - San Diego, CA. Thanks, RJ



Here in Warm Sands, Palm Springs, CA, interested in a serious frotluvr connection...a ltr is not out of the question with another frotman.


SF looking for a long term Frot buddy

Im 5'9 145 37yo brn/grn smooth swimmers build.

Looking for a long term, in shape, Frot buddy and who is around my age.

If interested please respond with your information and pictures.




Mature guy, 58, 5'7'', 165 seeks long term FROT buddy...

Santa Barbara, California area ... seek guy in same age range and about same size for creative, passionate interaction and establishing close personal relationship.


Frot Buddy

Ordinary, everyday guy looking for same to share and celebrate our masculinity.


FROT Comrade in Santa Monica

Looking for frot buddy in WLA or Santa Monica. I'm 49, and love rubbing. In Jeans, and Naked. Love deep kissing. Looking for someone special who shares my passion.


LAX frot man


I'm 5'6", 160, mature while male (60) looking for a frot buddy around the LAX area. Please understand and consider the following:

1. I'm straight. I'm married and already in a LTR. I'm just looking for a solid frot buddy, someone to share passionate, cock to cock rubbing.

2. I've never done anything with another man. Sorry if this turns you off but that's the truth. Phallic to phallic sex has been a sometimes strong, sometimes weak but always constant fantasy of mine for the past 25 years. Does anyone want to help me turn it into a reality? Absolute discretion is paramount.


Seeks San Francisco Area Frott Buddy

San Francisco area guy seeks that special someone for hot, regular frott adventures-- naked or fully-clothed or tee shirts or underwear-- bedroom, outdoors, beach, couch. I'm a black male, tall, smooth. Smart and funny.


SAN DIEGO frot buddy

26 5'6" 155 lbs black dude in San Diego looking For a frot partner. race age not an issue.


San Francisco Bay Area Frot Buddy

Tall, athletic, handsome, 39 year old black man looking for a regular frot buddy in the SF area. Love passionate kissing, oil massage, wrestling around, body contact. Drug/disease free and discreet.


San Francisco -- Asian looking for frot buddy

Hey, fellas - I've always been turned on by the thought of getting sweaty & making out with another guy, but I thought I was the only one who didn't like what's normally called "sex"! It's nice to know there are other men out there who get turned on as much as I do about man-to-man/c2c full body contact.

I am NEW to the whole "frot" thing and would like to try it out.

Physically speaking, I'm 25 yo, 5'5", 120, brown/black, smooth, and slim.

I don't have a place to meet, but I can travel if it's not too far, so if you're interested, reply to this thread or shoot me an e-mail. Stay healthy.


San Diego dude looking to frot

Hey im San Diego jerk off and cock to cock buddy. live downtown looking for same im 33, 5.10 looking to frot.


SFV friend

61 male yo. looking for male erotic/tantrik friendship. Email me.


rubbin cock in the 650 area code

Seeking friend for frottage. Hope to frot cock to cock. Email if interested.

44. 5' 10", 180lbs.


San Diego Frot Bud looking for Same

Looking to meet another 'regular' masculine, local guy for 1-on-1 naked play. I'm 37 y/o, white, masculine, military, discreet, horny, 6'0", 160 lbs, lean, athletic swimmer's build, HIV NEG, disease free and clean cut. I like lots of body contact, hugging, holding, cuddling, kissing and rubbing. I can host or travel locally (North Park) to you. Email me and let's go from there.


san diego - looking for frot in all the wrong places

FROT man here - masculine, fit, love outdoors, military, martial arts, discrete outdoors, looking for same - reply with photo and interests


28 in Long Beach 4 frot

Good looking, 28, 5'11" 190lbs. in Long Beach, Ca. looking for another guy thats into frot, body contact and deep kissing. Not looking for oral or anal. Im open as far as age and race and sexual labels and all that go. If it sounds good to you let me know.


Frot buddy wanted for nooners

I am a married guy that finds the male organ beautiful and the act of rubbing two penises together an awesome experience. I love the feeling of balls to balls, pricks making love, hearts pounding, tongues exploring and eyes locked looking into each other's sole. I need a buddy to share this experience with during the day since I can't do it with my wife. I am in West Hollywood during the day.


SF bay area muscle frot wrestling

I am 49 yo, 6' 210, muscle, and I would like to meet another muscular male in the SF bay area for c2c wrestling and fighting to emission.


818 or LA Committed relationship/frot partner in 818 or L.A. area

I am a good looking 45 year old man who is interested in meeting another man for frottage, c2c, rubbing, mutual j/o, and deep kissing. I am half asian/half caucasion, 5'11", 170 lb., dark hair and eyes, and smooth. I am only interested in meeting someone with the potential of a regular meeting. Please be a GM, and be between 35 and 50 yrs old, with weight proportionate to height. Please provide a pic and I will do the same.


Pump & Hump in LA's South Bay

Bi married stud looking for a workout buddy at Gold's Gym in Redondo Beach...and maybe an occasional frottage session when the wife's away.

Top Humper

SAN FRANCISCSO/EAST BAY Wrestling/Cockfight/Frottage Regular Buddy Wanted

Too much to ask? Another normal guy who just wants to wrestle all night? Early 40's, masculine, 5' 7" 140 pounds, been doing submission wrestling for several years, would really like to find a reliable regular buddy for workout, matches, role playing, non-anal sex. Live in Berkeley, single, lots of room to roughhouse.



New to this site, want to wrestle other bi or straight guy in long sweaty erotic matches. Frot sounds very good for the end of the match payoff. Mid forties, clean, fun times, no serious pain.


So Cal Ex-cop Seeks Muscled Cock Battles




Viking God

Real Wrestler Wants to Start with Real Wrestling (Valencia/Simi Valley)

Would like buddy for freestyle starting in Jan. Work out with team and on our own in Simi Valley. 34 yo 185 lbs. 5'9 44 chest 30 waist Also need lift buddy rest of year in Santa Clarita


Fresno/ FROT Buddy

Live in Fresno area. 19 yo, 6', white, muscular, smooth, 9" cut. Looking for buddy (18-30) for c2c rub, wrestling, speedo, gym partner.



Looking for another man who is into cock vs cock battles until one man makes the other shoot first. Also love nude erotic oil wrestling. Athleteic, handsome and in great shape here. Live in Los Angeles..I am 6' 0", 185 lbs. thick head of hair, blue eyes, clean shaven with a muscular hairy chest and 8c. Cock to cock, toe to toe, chest to chest, mouth to mouth. If any of this turns you on we should meet.


seeking for a true MALE TO MALE friendship...(Torrance)

hi everyne ..

i am a 31 y old male , i am a doctor ,,, i m seeking for a true MALE to MALE friendship,, as i am proud of my being male and i'd like to find the same in my friends ....

i am new to Torrance and i would like to find new friends ( MEN ) who knows the true meaning of friendship and manhood .....

i know it is hard but i won't stop hoping .....

feel free to ask about any details ...



Lookin in Santa Barbara

Bi white male lookin for a buddy to have some fun with-- shoot me an email and lets get together

SB 805

OC Area


Well, I've never been with a man before (except for a 3-some with my ex), but am totally digging the idea of being with another guy. This frot thing sounds like just the right thing; not too gay. That whole ass thing sounds like it would hurt. This sounds hella exciting.

I'm 24, 5'8", 150 lbs, cute, nice body and latin.

Let me know if you're interested. I think we could have a fun and rough time.


Silverlake Frot

Looking for a bud to hang out on a regular basis... maybe more if the vibe is right. frot, JO, deep kissing, creative, humorous, trim fit swimmer 45.

silverlake bud

Weho Frot

i'm in weho; luv frot/kissing/body contact... i'm 47, 5'9, 135 lbs.. lean/bl/bl boyish; also luv bulge gear/jeans. hit me up if interested


San Diego/North County area

Masculine, ruggedly good looking bearded man looking for some good M2M rubbin'.

Have always enjoyed humping another mans body ,kissing passionately and rubbing cocks together 'till we both cum. I am an intense lovemaker and enjoy looking into a mans eyes when we make M2M love.

Not into anything unsafe, kinky or weird and want to establish a deep connection while having fun sexually with another nice guy.

I am 51 years old,5'11",220#,full S&P beard,German/Irish/Polish.

Please have a face pic to exchange if you are interested in getting together.



Fit Masc Athletic 45 - Sacramento - Seeking Frot Buddy

Hey Men in the Sacramento Region,

Often thought it would be terrific to have a regular frot buddy to explore safe and discreet m2m intimacy on a regular basis with someone who can host, someone who is also fit and athletic, masculine, fun to be with. Prefer 35+

Into playful, fit friendly frisky m2m exploration - Drop me a note if you think we could be a fit and tell me about yourself. Married and bi are fine too. Thanks, Men.

Mascman in Sacramento

North San Diego County gwm

Hi guys, I'm 53, 5'7", 150lbs, 7", hairy chest and am looking for a guy into rubbing cocks, nude body to body contact, and hot passionate kissing just as much as I am---and I am! No problems traveling for the right guy. Willing to trade pix if you are interested, drop me a note.


VENTURA/SANTA BARBARA discreet and lookin for the one

lookin for the one to get together with, for mutual satisfaction; good kisser here too, so if you are into that, great! send pic to e-mail address and lets make plans to get together and have some fun. 5'11, latin, masculine, 43 here. other guy who is hwp would be great, too.


Northern California frot

Coastal northern California/southern Oregon. Single, 32, 5'11", 150, blond/hazel, looking only for cock-on-cock action, body rubbing. Making love or just humping and grinding till we're both satisfied. Not into anal or oral. Frot totally does it for me. Have some pics to trade. Let's talk. Email me:


Frot Buddy In San Diego

I am 30, looking for someone 25-50 that likes being touched and feeling good and returns the same .....descrete and willing to share new idea without going anal... no rough play...

I am straight and must have exceptional discretion and I will provide the same. Am looking for a first time experience. I cannot host. I am clean, no stds.

SD bud

frot and bonding in north SF bay

I'm a masculine in shape .low key white male 6ft 173 lbs and 44 this month.I'm vry active ,swim and lift and love the outdoors .film and stimulating conversation .I'm interested in meeting other in shape guys ,race is not an issue but prefer over 35,who like frottage and might be available for dating or more.I'd like to meet someone that is comfortable with their sexuality. You don't need to be a rainbow flag waver but please no one that behaves as if they're in the witness protection program either.


Frot Bro in No Calif

Looking for frot partner on SF/Mendocino County axis, and anywhere in between. I am into all types of dickplay and manly body play. NO anal. I am 56, look a lot younger, 5'11", 195, 8" uncut. Open to all types of interest.


SAN DIEGO guy looking for buddy

19yrs. old, 6.5", cut, 6'1'', roughly 160#, looking for guy 20-25, who is clean shaven, moderate body hair (legs, chest), no stds, clean, someone who can host, into c2c, kissing, licking, straight...

I am straight and must have exceptional discretion and I will provide the same. Am looking for a first time experience. I cannot host. I am clean, no stds.

Email pics if interested.

sd guy

under35wrestle/frot bud in LA

str8 guy here but coolto hang in boxers, wrestle, compare jocks, jo, frot with another masculinebro, in LA here, 27, 5'9", 155lbs, 32 waist, athletic latino email me


Re: under35wrestle/frot bud in LA

27 here. college athlete. looking for ultra discreet frot. new to this. gotta be all masc. Built. Young. Athletic and discreet.


Str8 buddy looking for DISCREET Str8 bud

28. Athletic. Built. Straight with GF. Looking for buddy in same situation to hang and bond. Very private. Discreet. DD free. Safe. Inexperienced and looking for same. Please be built and masculine and private.


Re: Str8 buddy looking for DISCREET Str8 bud

hey guy saw u responded to mines so i thought id say whats up. 27 here, masculine, str8 guy but like the comradery with another guy. near downtown la. might be cool to frot with another discreet bud.


Re: Str8 buddy looking for DISCREET Str8 bud

Very private built white guy. 30 5'11" 180 brn hair. Definitely into FROT and light erotic wrestling. Not gay but into dudes. Hit me up.

SD Wrestler

Seeking regular dude for frot/horsing around in SFV

Hey men, just a regular guy here seeking out a bud for frot and/or wrestling (horsing around) with each other. I am 6' tall and weigh about 225lbs. I have a strong stocky built who enjoys playing with a buddy.

Lets talk ... A good friendship might develop ...Thanks for reading this, alex

Todays date is May 25, 2004


Northern Ca: naked wrestling/grappling

6' 36yo guy looking for tough no-holds-barred naked wrestling/grappling bud. E-mail if interested


sf young sexy and hung guy looking for frot buddy

been wanting to find a guy in sf for mutual frot...30, musc, relaxed, 8 cut, gl guy...drop me a line if interested, preferably w/ a pic. thanks.


Seeking Frot Buddy

Hey-Not into gay scene at all, still fuck girls, but I think I want to try something like this. It's safe and sounds sexually exciting. Maybe 3-way action with a chick? I'm 25, in shape, masculine, lean build. Hit me up if you're around my age and cool with this frot "project." Peace.



27 male -n S. of Crestcent Heights

Me- 6'0 175-180 masc, like to connect with a frot budd in my area for a decent moment to share, rub-talk.

You- be around my age 27-30 and we will connect from there.



LOS ANGELES -- 818 area code

Long for FROT relationship (NO anal or oral). Senior citizen, 6'2", 192#, white hair, brown eyes, married 42 years; grown son, grown daughter, two young grandsons. Had 6 years of active military service, 3 years airborne with 29 jumps. Had several cardiac arrest episodes, March 2003, with 5x bypass surgery, Pacemaker/Defibrillator. Never had a Frot experience. Make email contact, please.


Frot-What I have searched for my entire life.

Looking to meet members of Frot for c2c as well as all aspects of this wonderful site. I thought I was along in this world until today. Having delved into the gay life style and never fitting in because I could not and would not get into all the aspects of it. I am a man that enjoys the one to one manly relationship. I want to enjoy Frot and Frot only. If you live in S.Cal and are not of the gay crowd and have been involved in Frot, please email me. Learning as much as I can now that I found a site that has all the qualities I always believed were out there but could never find.


Looking for a Frot Bud in Los Angeles

hey guys,,,looking to meet another inshape masculine guy into wrestling and grinding bone on bone. i like a hairy guy or a guy with natural body hair,,not into guys with shaved/waxed or trimmed bodies. looking to meet a guy between the ages of 35 and 45,,,i am 36, 6'1 175 musculine lean build. alright,,take it easy


Married but have need of Frot bud in fresno

10yrs married living in fresno. have needs to frot occasionally. nothing like to m2m frontal contact. if your in the area and have similar needs, lets talk.


Wrestling in tight gear, San Jose

fun, slow wrestling in tight gear, good exercise and rolling around, lots of chest to chest contact, bear hugs, cover pins, lots of frottage, non competitive, good fun time for both. Nice, handsome man, 5'11", 180, fit. Looking for same or close to.


Looking for wrestling buddy in SGV-Pasadena area

Im 33, str8, 5'11", 200lbs average guy. Looking to try m2m wrestling for the first time. I can host or travel. Shorts, jockstraps, naked, whatever.


Wrestling, Gear Buddy, 21-35yo Masc only!

Looking for another str8 appearing Dude near my size that gets into wrestling around, grinding and stuff in gear. 32, 5'8'', 162, northern Ca.



Hey guys got mats - seeking a bud with similar stats and interests for some frottage -m2m grapplin - wrestling - workouts. Got private space to toss around on. 45y/o 5'9" 175lb 43c32w15a - workout 3-4days week - wrestle couple times month if luck be with me. Lets Lock and Roll


EAST BAY wrestler lookin for buddy

good times here

I live in the east bay (38 mins east of San Francisco) and I am constantly on the lookout for a wrestling buddy. I wrestled in high school and still get a hard on when I grapple with another guy. I am 6', 170# smooth, clean cut, brown hair and blue eyes, nice / athletic bod, really handsome, like to bike and swim. Wrestling in speedos or a singlet is a major turn on. I almost always shoot my load while wrestling with another guy. I am bi and married so extreme discretion is a must. I will trade pics if so desired.


Finally, guys who are really into real "guy" play.

Hey there, I am a stocky (solid) latino, 40 years old, 6' and weigh about 225. I am just a average type dude who really, really gets into frottage with another guy. A real total bonding experience... Man love to get going full on with another like minded man. I am in the San Fernando Valley area. Let's talk! Take care bros.



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