Western Kansas -- West of Hays

Handsome, 50 year old married man, seeking to establish a frot friend, who also seeks someone they trust with their intimacy. I am fit, 160lbs, well enough endowed, who would like to have a true friend, whom I can spend time with. I am discreet, and expect the same, I am not looking for a one time thing, I'm thinking, if compatible to establish a life long bromance.


Looking for a frot buddy in the Wichita area...

27 yo married white male here, happily married with children and with no plans to change that. I am looking for a guy in a similar situation to form a good, solid male friendship with and, if we both feel like it is right, some frot fun as well. This aspect of our friendship would have to be discrete. I would respect your privacy on this, and would expect it in return.

Above all, I would like to find a good friend. Would prefer someone close enough to my age and/or situation to have similar life experiences. Aside from frot, it would be great to be able to go camping, work out, and even just go out for drinks or pool. If you are looking for the same, please get in touch with me!

BJ Smith

20 year old in Atchison

Looking for frot buddy to experiment with. 5'6 and 160lbs. In college so I'm looking for a flexible friend to be there when I need him. If you're there for me I'll be there for you.


Manhattan Kansas Frot bud

20 year old athletic bi-curious guy here looking for a frot bud. Me and a friend have frotted before when we were in high school wrestling in his basement and things just kept heating up as we rubbed each others bodies and took off our clothes, but I haven't gotten to experience that great feeling again for a long time. I'm 5'11 150 lbs in great shape, looking for another guy that is similar in Manhattan, KS.

Roe Rex

21st Century Renaissance Man Looking for You!

Hi, guys! I'm 49, 6'2", about 300 lbs, 56" chest, 46" waist, size 13 shoe, dark blond hair, blue eyes... NOT centerfold material! [wink] Yeah, I'm a big masculine guy... sort of a gentle bull. I have hundreds of interests from ice hockey and bowling to cooking a great meal, beer, and a good old movie. Whatever happened to the idea of dating and getting to know a guy before hopping into bed?

That said, I've been lucky enough to have had several LTRs (the longest lasting 13 years), and I miss the intimacy and affection two men can have for each other. I'm still confident that I can find it one more time.

If any of this even sounds vaguely interesting to you, be brave; be a man; say hello. What the hell, we could both be pleasantly surprised.



I'm right on the border of Kansas City, MO.


Hey guys, I am a single white male, 49 years old and looking for a frot buddy and if it leads into something longterm, then all the better. Even just a friend to chat with about this wonderful subject would be wonderful. Looks are not near as important to me as the heart so don't be shy. I am just me --- and hopefully yours should it work out that way. Drop me a line. Nothing to lose, but possibly all to gain. Take care.


Hutch, Wichita, Kingman area looking for a friend

divorced in shape dad in the Hutch, Wichita, Kingman area, health minded, very in shape and very young looking 47, looking for someone around 30-50 (they have the same yrs of life experience and common sense) (but not limited to) and who also is into working out and taking care of themselves and their appearance for a friend and maybe more.


it took too long

I wish I would have found this site sooner. Would have saved lots of frustration. Looking for someone to explore frot with.


Yo frot buds!

Hey guys, straight, good-looking 20/m here seeking a frot buddy in op, lenexa, olathe, leawood, shawnee or surrounding area. Don't be shy!


good looking FROT buddy/relationship?

I'm 6', 175....gl, athletic guy. Wasn't sure what I was looking for until I found a name for it in FROT. Looking for a discreet relationship with another attractive FROT guy....friends to the public. FROT behind closed doors....safe and clean and a good guy....if interested send me an e-mail and tell me about yourself....a pic is a plus.

Discreet OP Jock Guy

Re: good looking FROT buddy/relationship?

Hey I saw your post on Frot Club. I feel the same, I wasn't sure what I was looking for until I found frot. I'm looking for discreet relationship like you. I'm safe, clean and my friends would say a good guy. I'm 5' 11'', 150lb, 33w, enjoy exercise (running & biking), in Lawrence, Ks. Reply if interested.


frot bud

19, horny and hung, athletic, 165 lbs, 32 inch waist, 8"c, lookin for a buddy for some safe fun


Manhattan, Topeka, Lawrence, KC

Looking for a regular frot partner somewhat near my stats....5'9 150 31w 40c 7.5c Into frot ONLY. Long grind and rub sessions or lite chest pin erotic wrestling.


Wanting to make a true friend in the south KC metro area

Here it is guys, I'm 45, white, 180, 5'8", goatee and mustache, hair cut short. I'm an average looking guy that works out some, so I am in shape but need to lose 10 or 15 pounds, my manhood is an average 5.5". If you are stuck on large cocks, I'm not your man, besides this is not the criteria I am looking at, nor should it be yours. You need to be as I, sincerely looking for friendship based on real, healthy male intimacy.

I'm married with children and plans on staying that way, have a same sex attraction since my teens but have not ever acted on it. This doesn't mean I'm fresh meat for anybody, though.

I'm looking to make a real, true friendship with real male intimacy, I need to make physical contact but will make it clear that SEX is not the main point of the relationship. I want true friendship that can safely explore and determine the needs of each other without being destructive to my marriage or the male to male relationship. I would rather have a friend than sex, if you know what I mean (if you don't, please stop here).

I am eager to meet a guy, I like a hairy guy but that is not a pre-requsite to a relationship. Need to be masculine and mature, looking for the same thing I am, friendship first and if found mutually necessary, discreet sexual contact within the boundaries of this site (only if both consent).

I am intelligent and want to have serious replies only. This does stimulate me thinking about the possiblities, mainly because I want real friendship and that turns me on cause it has evaded me for so long.

If you have got this far and think you would like to start up a conversation via email to begin with to see how things go, I encourage you to do so. If you are looking for a quick sex partner and to get my "cherry", sorry, I'm not gonna do it.

Hope this finds a real man looking for a real friendship.




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