New to Frot in Albuquerque

47 yo married man. 6'2" 190. Looking for a friend first who shares the fascination with the incredibly beautiful sex act. Never done this sort of thing before. Please contact if interested.


Farmington area Frot Friend

Married man here looking for a "Frot Friend" to share some hot fun on a regular basis. Not looking for multiple friends, just one like minded man to explore with. Im in the Farmington area and prefer a cut cock on a clean and easy going man. Thanks in advance for responding and I hope to hear from you soon!

Clever Name

looking for a guy in Santa Fe

Hi Im in Santa Fe New Mexico, Im looking for a guy who is passionate about frot and would like to find a friend. Im so glad I found this site! I hope to meet someone soon! I am 44yrs old, 5'7 148lb-hispanic.


ABQ lookin 4 Frot Bud

47 wm n abq 5 8 180 checking it out and would like a frot bud to get it on


Frot wrestler/cockfight matches

Looking for other safe,discreet, handsome male into frot or cock fight matches. 5'9/175, 16a, 45ch. Work out. Hisp. Lets connect and get a match going.


married man wanting to explore with another

For as long as I can remember there has been a strong attraction to a man's hairy chest.

I am a married man who just wants to share closeness with another man, (preferably married too), for safe physical contact. Not looking for a dating relationship.

Someone who is 35 - 50 y/o, not larger than 180 lbs., non-smoker, with a nice hairy chest would be most apprectiated.


ALAMOGORDO Senior lookin for 1 Frot Partner

I am 53 and looking for a wrestling frot partner. Will be first one since an encounter at 15 years old.


Looking for sensible and stable gay friends

I'm a 68 year old gay man who has never been interested in gay bars, baths, or promiscuity. I work out regularly in a gym, ride a bicycle, and a motorcycle. I'm also a gay activist.

Probably I'm in a tiny minority, but I think it's more important to have good trustworthy friends than to have sex partners. It's good to have a life partner that includes sex, but rushing into things causes too many problems.

I'd like to hear from guys who are not looking for quick sex, and who may not even be looking for sex at all.


Frot guys

Didn't know there were some guys into the same stuff here in New Mexico. Live in Albuquerque and work in Santa Fe. Such a man/man experience that only we can know how great it feels.


New Mexico Buddy

I am looking for a frot buddy or just e-mail buddies to talk with. I am blown away that there is a club like this. Wow who else is out there.


This site is great! Looking for friends here!

Hi. New Mexico seems to be an isolated place. Im 48, 5'11", 175ln and smooth and only recently out after years of being married. All the gay guys I have met have had the ultimate goal of anal, and it's not working for me. This concept makes sense, and I know it's what I've felt since my earliest sexual awareness. Looking to chat with others nearby -- and thanks to Mark in Phoenix for making me aware of this site. It's amazing!

Welcome all new friends and messages!




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