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 Frot to Trot
 11-1-2003
 Bill,
 
 Thanks for putting into words what I have been thinking for the past 20 years. I am referring to your article in BAY TIMES, Rethinking Gay Sex. 
 Such a simple solution for a complex problem. 
 
 Intimacy, touching, closeness, and manual fun sound just as gay sex positive as any kind of act that may result in disease and death. I too am dismayed at the pretty boy posters of positive guys. I guess my mind is still stuck with the ghastly images of all the dead friends and lovers I've lost during these past two decades. 
 
 Your life-affirming perspective does not stop with gay people either. Straight folks have a lot to learn about preventing unplanned pregnancies and STD's too. 
 
 Good job.
 
 Sincerely,
 
 Danny 
 Re: Frot to Trot
 11-1-2003
 thanks danny
 re "simple solution"
 chuck tarver, dr edward green, and i have been talking about simple solutions recently
 alcoholism -- stop drinking (AA)
 lung cancer -- stop smoking (ACS)
 HIV, HPV, HSV, hep c, hep b, gonorrhea, etc -- stop doing anal (
M2M Alliance)
 in each case there's a simple and low cost solution
 and in no case is the individual poorer for having chosen it
 no one needs alcohol, cigarettes, or anal "sex"
 and in the case of anal, not only is there an alternative, but it's far more pleasurable
 so what's preventing this solution from being implemented?
 vested interests
 we now have a huge AIDS industry which supports AIDS Service Organizations, safer-sex educators, condom manufacturers, lube purveyors, pharmaceutical companies, and doctors, nurses, and a host of other "health care providers"
 if you don't do anal -- you don't need any of that
 AA -- to its eternal credit -- has refused to become commercial
 so there are now clinics which charge people tens of thousands of dollars to tell them the same thing:
 if you're an alcoholic -- you need to stop drinking
 it's a simple solution -- and it's also the only solution
 there's a fantasy among analists that a microbicide will be developed which will make anal safe
 but just as soon as that microbicide appears, pathogens will start evolving to work around it and continue to use anal as a vector -- a direct route into the blood
 there's a simpler, more pleasurable, and more intrinsically human solution:


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