I've written to you once before, but wanted to do so once again to let you know how much I appreciate your website and all of the work that you do.

If it weren't for your website, I probably would never have realized and accepted who I am in terms of what I prefer (frot) in terms of my sexuality. You also provide valuable information to gay and bi men as to why frot is such a safe and pleasurable alternative to anal sex.

I am also very thankful to you in that I have found a frot buddy because of your website. Despite the distance we live apart (about 350 miles), and our age difference (he is 20 years older than me), we are very similar in ways that truely matter. He is not just a lover, but an incredible friend. I can't think of anyone I'd rather be with. We have been seeing each other for close to a year now.

Good luck in all that you do, Bill!


Bill Weintraub

Re: Thanks


Thanks Rick.

I asked Rick for permission to post this email because it so beautifully epitomizes what the site is about:

empowering men into frot

helping other men see why frot is a good choice

helping guys find LTRs

In a follow-up email, Rick said

"I, too, had been depressed, living with a gay culture so dominated by anal sex to the point that it became oppressive. I am so happy to be set free from those shackles that I can hardly believe it!"

"I'm wildly attracted to this man I'm currently seeing .... physically and spiritually. When you find someone that means this much to you, you really don't feel the need to be with anyone else sexually, just that one particular person. Some people may think of that as being suffocation, but not me. I feel freer than I've ever felt in any romantic relationship I've ever been in. And the reason I feel so free is because I'm seeing the right person. We understand and accept each other, and are free from the binds that weighed heavy on me from previous relationships that failed."


So while it's arduous, it's worth it to look for the right person.

That's why we're a Fidelity site.

Because nothing can beat the combination of Fidelity and Frot.

Thanks again Rick.


Re: Thanks


I to must thank you Bill for this site, I've long had this longing just to be held and understood yet still be a man. I think this is why I get so hot when I see a passionate strong woman. I could see there essentialness Like the character Zhaan from Farscape or there strength and mystery like Ripley in Alien 4 they could both explore you sensually and want to be with you totally. I thought I found that with my wife and had at first for I use to love the way she explored my body it reminded me of the times I had with Robby yet I never had to replace her with his memory I loved her for making me feel complete like that again.

However all that faded away which left me with this void a longing that I haven't felt since before I escaped my mother. So her I was trying to fill this void with gay porn yet my love for women left me confused what am I? I see the beauty in men and due to my past as I've posted with Bill, deep inside my mind regardless of my heterosexual preference I am attracted to men and often felt only a man can show true love for another man because when he does he is very vulnerable.

To just let down his guard and expose his manhood and still be a man and to feel another guys cock grinding into another just seems so raw and electric. I found this to be very attractive, yet due to my wife's infidelity and soon to be ex I find myself alone and lost for affection and no one to tell how I feel and then I find this place in my hunt to fill the void. An for the first time ever I've been able to tell a part of me no one but God knew of so again I thank you. Plus I promise you once I get my finances back in order You will be getting a donation from me.


Add a reply to this discussion

Back to Personal Stories


Warriors Speak is presented by The Man2Man Alliance, an organization of men into Frot

To learn more about Frot, ck out What's Hot About Frot

Or visit our FAQs page.

Warriors Speak Home

Cockrub Warriors Site Guide

The Man2Man Alliance

Heroic Homosex

Frot Men


Frot Club

Personal Stories

| What's Hot About Frot | Hyacinthine Love | THE FIGHT | Kevin! | Cockrub Warriors of Mars | The Avenger | Antagony | TUFF GUYZ | Musings of a BGM into Frot | Warriors Speak | Ask Sensei Patrick | Warrior Fiction | Frot: The Next Sexual Revolution |
| Heroes Site Guide | Toward a New Concept of M2M | What Sex Is |In Search of an Heroic Friend | Masculinity and Spirit |
| Jocks and Cocks | Gilgamesh | The Greeks | Hoplites! | The Warrior Bond | Nude Combat | Phallic, Masculine, Heroic | Reading |
| Heroic Homosex Home | Cockrub Warriors Home | Heroes Home | Story of Bill and Brett Home | Frot Club Home |
| Definitions | FAQs | Join Us | Contact Us | Tell Your Story |

© All material on this site Copyright 2001 - 2010 by Bill Weintraub. All rights reserved.